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I used it at 11pm after an argument. It didn't tell me what to do. It helped me figure out what I actually meant.
M
We need to talk!
...not so scary anymore.
Your AI-powered companion for greater clarity and better conversations in relationships. Reflect on thoughts, feelings, and conflicts — with structure, privacy, and at your own pace.
The problem
Start, before it's too late.
The average couple waits 2.68 years between the first real problem and asking for help. Two years of the same argument. Two years of the pattern getting deeper.
It doesn't have to work this way. Relationships aren't meant to be fixed in crisis. They're meant to be understood continuously. ailloy is built for that: the whole arc of a relationship, not just the moment it breaks.
Who is it for
For the better.
For the worse.
For the in-between.
I Together, intentionally
Together, intentionally.
For couples who want to stay ahead of the patterns. Weekly check-ins, Question of the Day, language you don't always have when you need it.
II Together, in the hard part
Together, in the hard part.
For couples navigating the real stuff: communication that keeps collapsing, intimacy that's drifted, conflict cycles that won't break.
III In-between
In-between.
For the stuck phase. When you're not sure what this is anymore. When you need to think clearly before you say anything out loud.
IV On your own
On your own.
For singles rebuilding, reflecting, or figuring out what they actually want from the next one.
Technology has extended our lives. Now we need to use that same progress to better support our mental health and our relationships. For this future to succeed, experienced therapists and skilled software engineers need to work side by side. I'm glad to bring my 50 years of clinical practice to that mission.
Dr. David Wilchfort
M.D. / Univ. Toronto · Couples Therapist · Clinical Advisor
ailloy app features
An ecosystem for a healthy
relationship.
I
Sessions.
Structured conversations and prompts, based on insights from relationship and communication research.
II
Impulse.
Quick reflections for whatever is happening right now. For when you need to sort your thoughts, calm down, or find a new perspective.
III
Journeys.
Multi-week paths for specific relationship topics: rebuilding closeness, understanding conflict, navigating parenthood, working through thoughts of separation.
IV
Stories.
Useful knowledge between sessions. Swipe through short insights from psychology, communication research, and relationship science.
V
Question of the Day.
A daily check-in for you or both of you. For couples with a reveal moment. For singles as a moment of reflection.
For your relationship life.
How ailloy supports you.
Understand
Gain clarity
- Understand what is happening right now
- Sort through thoughts and feelings
- See your own needs more clearly
Reflect
Recognize patterns
- Recognize recurring relationship patterns
- Look at situations from new perspectives
- Reflect on your own or together
Prepare
Prepare conversations
- Put difficult topics into words
- Prepare for conversations at your own pace
- Say more clearly what matters to you
ailloy supports self-reflection and communication. It does not provide therapy, diagnosis, or medical advice.
From the pilot
Voices from the first fifty.
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We did the communication journey together. Week three was the first time in a year we didn't end the conversation worse than we started it.
J
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I'm single. I used it to understand why I keep picking the same fight with different people. That alone was worth it.
A
get ailloy
Let's make "we need to talk"
Let's make "we need to talk"
less scary.
Thanks — we'll be in touch. Talk soon.
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